My 96-year-old grandmother passed away this spring. During her final days, I remember my aunts finding her funeral wishes written on a piece of paper and tucked inside her Bible. She had written down her favorite Bible passages to be read, songs to be sung and even a request for my brother to sing a hymn. Luckily, my dad and my aunts knew exactly what she wanted for the celebration of her life and had time to plan a beautiful service.
Even though my family had the time to prepare and knew my grandmother’s wishes, not all families have that luxury. The process takes an emotional and financial toll on those left behind. Planning ahead can help relieve that burden from loved ones. Here are a few numbers to consider when thinking about or discussing advance funeral plans.